Style Perfect Weddings and Events

Foodie Inspiration!

2012-01-30T09:02:00.005-05:00

Source: A Season to Celebrate

When planning your event you should not only evoke site, you should entice all the 5 senses especially TASTE! Check-out this great blog by Marletha Booker, A Season to Celebrate | The Ultimate Food Guide For Celebratory Events. I LOVE it! The site is a great resource for foodie inspiration and will guide you in planning your event menu and more.

Today's post talks about the ever so popular dessert table favorite, macaroons, and what they cost.

Happy Planning!

We Love our Clients!

2012-01-28T10:45:00.009-05:00

In March, Style Perfect Events, we'll celebrate 3 years as a wedding and event planning company in Charlotte. Our business is built on supportive and encouraging vendors and trusting clients who allow us to come in and bring their wedding or event vision to life. We are so thankful for our clients and vendors and wanted to celebrate them with a Client Appreciation "Date Night"!

This was our first client appreciation event, so we wanted to go all out for our 2011brides and grooms and corporate clients. We hosted a fun sushi making class and wine pairing at Silk Lounge at Enso Asian Bistro and Sushi Bar and brought in Katie Crawley from Global Wines to pair wine and Saki with our sushi. We also brought in yummy cupcakes from the Cornelius bakery SweetCakes Bakery for dessert.

Check-out a few pictures from the event taken by Lucy Parker of Smitten and Hooked, one of our favorite vendors, on her blog!

I can't wait to start planning for our next event celebrating our 2012 clients!

Wedding Day Hairstyle Ideas for Short Hair

2012-01-22T19:38:00.006-05:00

Today's post is from our intern, Keneya. Enjoy!

Choosing the perfect hairstyle is a tough decision for any bride. Some brides prefer the elegant bun while other brides want full, fun curls. All these styles are beautiful but brides with shorter hair have fewer options when it comes to doing these styles. Having short hair shouldn't limit you on your wedding day. Good news! Glamour released an article for our shorter-haired brides. Click here to find ten different hairstyles will have you looking beautiful and elegant on your wedding day!

Source: Glamour

Fabulous Local Store Find: Retro Handset

2011-12-28T09:34:00.009-05:00

One of the best and most unique gifts that I received this year for Christmas, besides my Babycakes, was a retro red receiver for my cell phone. How fun! I love the kitchy humor it brings and how practical it is. Have you seen this product before? Love it!

Source: COCO Retro Phone

Bridal Events this Holiday Season!

2011-12-23T23:04:00.003-05:00

Source: Google Images

Cheers to the holiday and engagement season! Our Intern Keneya, a senior at Davidson College, has researched some great bridal sales and events for Charlotte brides.

Mecklenburg Bridal Company has been serving the Charlotte area since 1981. They offer all styles of dresses including bridal and bridesmaid dresses, flower girl dresses, mother-of-the-bride dresses, shoes, and wedding accessories. The best part? During the entire month of December you will be able to receive all of these items for 30%-60% off! They’re changing locations and they want to reward you in their moving sale. Time’s running out and you don’t want to miss this deal! Click here for more details.

…and we haven’t forget about your bridesmaids! They need dresses too! Dressilyme.com is offering a sale for all bridesmaids’ dresses from December 17th-30th. Buy as a group and receive 40% when you purchase 3-4 dresses, and 45% when you purchase 5 or more. Hurry before miss your chance at this deal!

Not sure what dresses you want, what’s in style, or even where to start? Don’t worry. I have a solution to help you. On January 8, 2012, Charlotte is hosting their annual Bridal Show! Over a hundred bridal professionals from all over the country will be at the Charlotte Convention Center to show you the latest styles in bridal fashion! Tickets are $10 online and $12 at the door. If you’re interested in attending, click here for more details!

In the Press: Savannah Weddings

2011-12-15T09:38:00.008-05:00

I'm VERY excited to have one of our April couples wedding featured in the current issue of Savannah Weddings!

I absolutely LOVED Kristen and Mario's wedding! Beautiful location, wonderful couple, fabulous details and great weather. Please read the article about their big day in Savannah Weddings, pages 50-55 or check-it out online here.

Give the Gift of Flowers

2011-12-14T10:07:00.009-05:00

Source: Google Images via weddingsjubilee.blogspot.com

Saturday was my last event of the year. It was a corporate holiday party at Founders Hall and my colleague Barbara of From This Day Forward Special Events provided beautiful holiday arrangements for the guest tables. After the event, I just couldn't imagine these flowers going to the trash, which many times they do when a happy home has not been identified for them after the wedding or event.

I do know of one hospital in uptown that happily accepts flowers for their patients who've been moved into hospice, but being located in Huntersville, I also wanted to find a local nursing home.

I scoured Google and my phone in search of a nursing home that would benefit from beautiful flowers. After a 10 minute search, I found Carolina Medical Center Huntersville Oaks. The staff was so friendly and I was actually able to go around the nursing home and gift some of the residents with the beautiful floral arrangements. :-)

After your event, please donate your flowers and extend the joy.

Here are two locations that accept flowers:

Huntersville Oaks
12019 Verhoeff Drive
Huntersville, NC 28078
704-863-1000

Presbyterian Hospice and Palliative Care
200 Hawthorne Lane
Charlotte, NC 28204
704-384-3527

Party Time!

2011-12-06T12:46:00.006-05:00

The holidays are officially here and the party season is in full swing. I love this time of the year because I love to get dressed up. Every year I get a new dress for New Years Eve! Here are some fun dresses I found online for the holiday season.

Store: Asos.com

Store: Asos.com

Store: Arden B

Happy Shopping!

Corporate Events by Style Perfect Events

2011-12-04T13:18:00.000-05:00

Style Perfect Events foundation is in party planning, non-profits and fundraising, so we love every opportunity that we get to through a fabulous baby shower or birthday party or map out the finite details of an awards gala or fundraising event.

This year we've had the pleasure of planning events for the following organizations:
Greater Charlotte Chapter of the International Special Events Society
Davidson College
Vanity 7 Studio
Santander Consumer USA, Inc.

Here is a snapshot of some of our corporate work. You can view more on our Facebook Fan Page.

Photo: Robert Christopher Photography and Catchlight Studio

Photo: Robert Christopher Photography and Catchlight Studio

Photo: Robert Christopher Photography and Catchlight Studio

Photo: The Beautiful Mess Photography

Photo: The Beautiful Mess Photography

Photo: The Beautiful Mess Photography

Photo: LunahZon Photography

Photo: LunahZon Photography

Photo: LunahZon Photography

Call Style Perfect Events for your next corporate of non-profit event in Charlotte, 704-975-9941.

Fabulous Local Store Find: Bridesmaids Shoes

2011-11-14T12:14:00.008-05:00

When designing your wedding day, make sure that you also select attire for your wedding party that will complement your wedding style and make them feel fabulous and comfortable.

While shopping last week, I found these super cute formal heels at Off Broadway Shoes. Your bridesmaids will sing your praises with these sassy and affordable heels.

Happy Planning!

In the Press: Style Perfect Weddings and Events

2011-11-09T09:23:00.014-05:00

How exciting! Style Perfect Weddings and Events is quoted in the The Herald Weekly discussing the Democratic National Convention coming to Charlotte in 2012 and the wedding we planned for Jennifer + Daniel last September is featured in the Charlotte Premier Bride Magazine.

Emily Post - Wedding Party Responsibilities

2011-11-07T13:49:00.004-05:00

Source: Google via bostonmagazine.com

Many couples ask me what are the typical roles and responsibilities for their wedding attendants. Emily Post has put together a great list. Please see below.

Wedding Attendant Roles
• Pay for their wedding attire and accessories (excluding flowers).
• Arrange and pay for their own transportation. (Wedding hosts should provide the accommodations.)
• Be timely and communicative regarding travel arrangements and acquiring attire.
• Understand the specific duties involved (see below).
• Arrive at specified times for all wedding-related events.
• Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner; attend other pre-wedding events when feasible.
• Give an individual wedding gift to the couple, or contribute to a group gift from all the attendants.
• Assist the bride and groom whenever possible.
• Be attentive to other guests at the wedding and reception.
Source: Emily Post

To view more specific duties, click here for the article.

Happy Planning!

Babycakes!

2011-10-28T07:17:00.000-04:00

Image: Babycakes

While chatting with one of my colleagues this week, she told me about this fun product Babycakes that she saw at Kohl's! Babycakes is the creator of the mini-cupcake machine and many more: pie pops, cake pops, mini-doughnuts, whoopie pies, etc. How exciting! This product is definitely going on my Christmas list and...I think I want each product they sale. This product is great for DIY favors and party treats! Check-out the website, Babycakes.

Happy Planning!

Bridal Event This Weekend in Charlotte

2011-10-27T03:28:00.002-04:00

Brides-to-be check-out the Wedding Affair Showcase this Sunday, October 30th!

The Wedding Affair Showcase
Sunday, October 30th
1:00p.m.-4:00p.m.
Hampton Inn and Suites in Phillips Place
6700 Phillips Place Court
Charlotte, NC 28210
Ticket Price: $5.00

Click here for more details.

Happy Planning!

Charlotte Wedding: Theckla + Beale 6.25.11

2011-10-26T08:00:00.000-04:00

I love my job and feel truly blessed to work with such wonderful couples. My past bride, Theckla and I share a similar background. In my former life, I was an advertising account manager on Madison Avenue and Theckla also worked in New York in advertising, so in our first design meeting I was giddy with excitement when she pulled out an array of vibrant and bold pantone color chips for her wedding color palette. I knew this wedding was going to be fabulous!

Theckla and Beale were married on June 25th at St. Peter's Episcopal Church and the reception was held at the Mint Museum in uptown Charlotte. Theckla and Beale are an amazing couple. Their wedding was full of joy, laughter and good times!

Here are a few pictures from their wedding day. Photography by Cunningham Photo Artists.

Thank you so much to the incredible vendors that worked on Theckla and Beale's wedding!
Photographer: Cunningham Photo Artists
Ceremony: St. Peter's Episcopal Church
Reception: Mint Museum Uptown
Caterer: Carpe Diem
Rentals: Party Reflections
Lighting: Eye Dialogue
Linens: Cloth Connection
Flowers: In Bloom Ltd.
Band: Heather Hayes Experience

Live Music!

2011-10-24T09:44:00.013-04:00

Image: Google via todaysbride.wordpress.com

This past Saturday was the last wedding of the year for Style Perfect Weddings and Events and it was incredible. Lovely couple, wonderful weather, beautiful beach, fabulous decor, great music and breathtaking views of the sunset off of Lake Norman. I can't wait to share the pictures with you!

The entertainment for this weekend's wedding was Kevin Brawley! Kevin was such a pleasure to work with and did a great job with both the ceremony and reception music. Please check him out if you're looking for an acoustic guitar player for your wedding or event.

Music is VERY IMPORTANT to the success of a wedding, whether you're hiring a DJ or booking a live band. Over the year I've had the opportunity to work with many different musicians and live bands. Here are a few of my favorites from this year's wedding season:

Heather Hayes Experience - Incredible live energy band! I was never a huge fan of wedding bands, until I heard them play.
www.heatherhayesexperience.com

Mo Money - Fun and funky! Great to work with. Very easy going and keeps the crowd on the dance floor.
Mo Money Band

Kevin Brawley - Awesome for small weddings looking for great live music.
www.kevinbrawley.com

Who is your favorite wedding band in Charlotte?

Wedding Day Details - Charlotte Marriott Center City

2011-10-18T15:37:00.013-04:00

It's all about the details! I love working with my clients to design a fun and fabulous wedding day. This past weekend, Style Perfect Events married off Jule + Ryan at the beautiful St. Mark's Lutheran Church on Queens Road and the reception was held at the Marriott Center City in uptown.

Red K Photography graciously offered to take a few wedding day details of the reception before the festivities got underway.

Here are a few of the wedding day details captured by Red K Photography.

Stay tuned for additional images of this beautiful day, captured by the wonderful wedding day photographer, Kelli Brinkley Photography, which we will post on Facebook. The venodrs from the event will also be posted on our Facebook Page.

Make sure to check-our Facebook Page!

Fabulous Local Store Find: Crafty Finds at Staples

2011-10-07T11:57:00.005-04:00

On my monthly trip to Staples to stock-up on copy paper and printer ink, I came across these great new Avery printing products. What a find! Ready made templates make crafting and DIY projects fun and easy. Check-out the new arched labels, shopping tags with strings and bag toppers with clear bags.

Cakes and Dresses!

2011-10-01T10:31:00.011-04:00

Last month I had the opportunity to celebrate the growth of two great wedding vendors, Wow Factor Cakes and Classic Bride and Formals. Both companies have moved into larger locations, to better service their clients. Congratulations to Amy at Wow Factor Cakes and Phaedra at Classic Bride and Formals!

Please check-out their new locations. You're going to LOVE them!

The Wow Factor Cakes
2400 Park Road, Suite I
Charlotte, NC 28203
704-654-0598

Classic Bride and Formals
20910 Catawba Ave
Cornelius, NC 28031
704-896-3655

Image: Love Shutter Photography

Happy Planning!

A Twist on Wedding Reception Traditions!

2011-09-27T18:35:00.010-04:00

Image: Tracey Autem Photography

A wedding is very special and I love when couples are able to infuse personal touches into their day. Here are 4 great ways to add a twist to your wedding reception.

Welcome to the Family
During the cake cutting, join the families together by having both the bride and groom not only cut a slice a cake for themselves, but also cut a slice of cake for their new parents-in-law. The groom will take a slice of cake to his new mother-in-law, followed by the bride. (My wedding coordinator had my husband and I do this at our wedding. It was great! ;-))

Daddy's Little Girl
Start the reception with the Father of the Bride introducing the newly married couple. Such a sweet touch.

Anniversary Dance
This dance can be done two ways. The first is to have your MC invite all of the married couples up to the dance floor for a special song and during the course of the song couples will be asked to go back to their seat based on the number of years they've been married, staring with the bride and groom. As the song continues and the couples thin out, you will be left with one couple remaining to finish out the song. Your guests will naturally applaud in recognition. The second way is to have your MC invite married couples up to the dance floor based on the number of years they've been married, starting with the bride and groom. Soon you will have a dance floor full of people and this will kick-off the dancing portion of the reception.

Last Dance
As the wedding reception comes to a close, have your MC ask all of your guests (and vendors) to exit the room for an intimate last dance with only the bride and groom in the room.

Happy Planning!

Fabulous Local Store Find: Chalkboard Fun!

2011-08-30T08:05:00.005-04:00

How fun are these chalkboards! Found them at World Market yesterday for $6.99 a piece.

Cakes in Charlotte!

2011-08-07T21:50:00.001-04:00

This week in Charlotte bakers from all around the world came together for the International Cake Exploration Societé (ICES) convention. Open to the public this weekend was the Sugar Art Collection Cake Gallery. Check-out a few of the fun cakes on display!

Convention Show Cake

Cake by Penny Cunningham and the Carolina Memory Makers

Cake by Heather Campbell

Cake by Jenna Jones

Cake by Adam Starkey and Ted Scutti

Fabulous Local Store Find: Ikea

2011-07-28T10:25:00.007-04:00

Ikea is another one of my favorite stores for fun and affordable finds. Check-out a few of these great deals!

$2.99/4pk
Teal and Rose Color Champagne Flutes - Great dinner party item or a fun way to add a splash of color to your wedding place setting.

$12.99
Trio of Cylinder Vases for my Crafty Brides.

$29.99
The search stops here for this fabulous baroque picture frame. Love it!

Shoe Clips

2011-07-25T09:34:00.007-04:00

Image from Google via Ban.do

It's funny how fashion comes back in style every few years for new generations to enjoy and for past generations to feel nostalgic. One fashion trend that has made its way back is shoe clips. I used to wear shoe clips as a child. They were fun and fashionable!

Check-out this shoe clip website that I found via The Knotty Bride. It has a large selection!

Brides how are your accessorizing your wedding day look? Will you be wearing shoe clips?

Real Charlotte Wedding: Sneak Peek of Theckla + Beale 6.25.11

2011-07-24T21:19:00.000-04:00

Check-out the blog of Cunningham Photo Artists for a sneak peek of our couple Theckla and Beale married on June 25th at St Peter's Episcopal Church and the Mint Museum in uptown Charlotte.

More pictures to come soon. :-)

Photography by Cunningham Photo Artists

How to Budget for DIY Flowers

2011-07-20T09:35:00.007-04:00

Image via Google

This week Real Simple posted a great article on the average stem price for several popular flowers. Please check-out the list if you're considering DIY flowers.

Here a few of the listed flowers:
Calla Lily- $2 to $5
Dahlia- $1.50
Gardenia- $8 to $20
Gerbera Daisy- $1 to $3
Orchid (Cattleya, by the bloom)- $14
Peony- $4 to $7
Ranunculus- $1 to $2
Stephanotis- $1 to $3
Tulip- $1 to $4

Style Me Pretty Feature: South Carolina Wedding Heather + Walter

2011-07-19T11:25:00.005-04:00

We have some exciting news to share! One of our couples is featured on Style Me Pretty today. Heather and Walter were married in Brattonsville, SC at Hightower Hall, which is one of the locations filmed in the movie the "Patriot". Check-out their amazing wedding video captured by Visual Elegance! Check back in a few weeks for pictures from their beautiful wedding.

Heather + Walter | Feature Wedding Film from Visual Elegance on Vimeo.

Bridal Events This Weekend in Charlotte

2011-07-15T09:23:00.008-04:00

Image via Google

Charlotte brides, here is a list of events going on this weekend, July 15-17.

Coren Moore Trunk Show
Friday, July 15th - Saturday, July 16th
Hayden Olivia Bridal
221 South Tryon Street #200
Charlotte, NC 28202
704-333-0377
*By appointment only

Summer Cocktails
Friday, July 15th
5:30pm-7:00pm
Duke Mansion
400 Hermitage Road
Charlotte, NC 28207
Call 704-714-4448 or email pmartin@tlwf.org to reserve your spot.

Bari Jay Fall 2011 Trunk Show
Saturday, July 16th - Sunday, July 17th
10am-5pm
The Bridal House
8432 Old Statesville Rd, Suite 400A
Charlotte, NC 28269
704-597-0613
*By appointment only

Happy Planning!

Charlotte Wedding: Lauren + Steve 4.30.2011

2011-07-07T17:46:00.023-04:00

I love to have FUN and I love for my client's to enjoy the planning process of their wedding! This past April I had the honor of working with an amazing couple that put the "p" in "party"! I know that line is corny. :-) But, Lauren and Steve really infused their fun loving personalities into their wedding day. One of the personal details was a surprise performance of Michael Jackson's, "Thriller" via the Michael Jackson: The Experience Wii game that was brought out by the DJ for the crowd to dance along to.

Here is the style board that we put together for Lauren and Steve's wedding and a few pictures from their wedding day taken by Emily of Southern Star Photography

Enjoy!

Here is a list of the fabulous vendors from Lauren and Steve's wedding.
Photographer - Southern Star Photography
Ceremony - Grace Covenant Church
Reception - The Big Chill
Florist - From This Day Forward Wedding and Special Event Design
Baker - Wow Factor Cakes
Transportation - Peak Limo
DJ - Troy Adams of T-Time Entertainment
Uplighting - Cooke Rentals

What Your Flowers Say About Your Event

2011-07-01T09:33:00.007-04:00

Flowers have many meanings. From the color to smell and historic significance your event flowers can send a strong message. iFlorist has put together a list of flower meanings. Here are a few. Click here to read the full list.

Magnolia: Dignity, Splendid Beauty
Orchid: Magnificence, Love, Beauty, Refinement
Peony: Healing, Life, Happy Marriage, Gay life
Rose, White: Charm, Secrecy, Silence, You're Heavenly, Reverence, Humility,
Rosemary: Constancy, Fidelity and Loyalty
Statice: Lasting Beauty
Stephanotis: Happiness in marriage
Sunflower: Homage and Devotion
Thyme: Courage and Activity
Tulip: Symbol of The Perfect Lover

Image: Google

Be Inspired: Table Numbers

2011-06-22T21:40:00.007-04:00

The White Library via Etsy

It's all in the details. Have fun with designing your wedding day or event tablescape with inspired table numbers.

Check-out today's post by The White Library for some great table number finds. Click here to read.

Fabulous Local Store Find: Hobby Lobby

2011-06-20T10:45:00.006-04:00

Hobby Lobby is another one of my favorite stores! Last week I found this great acrylic cake stand for $9.99. What a deal! It's 10.5 inches in diameter. Great for home parties and dessert tables.

Click here for this week's 40% off coupon.

Glassware is also 50% off this week!

Tipping Your Wedding Vendors

2011-06-10T09:46:00.006-04:00

"Which vendors should I tip?" and "How much should I tip my vendors?" are questions that I get a lot from brides. It's hard to know what is proper protocol for weddings, since this is the first and probably last time they'll plan a wedding, so I let my brides know that tipping is in their discretion and welcome and that a hand written thank you note is always nice or a small gift of appreciation.

Check-out The Knot's Wedding Vendor Tipping Cheat Sheet here.

Happy Planning!

Nail Polish - What's Your Color?

2011-06-08T21:25:00.000-04:00

When I go to the salon for a manicure and pedicure it takes me about 15 minutes to pick out my nail polish color. I'm always drawn to pink, soft pink for my nails and bright pink for my toes, but then I love the fun and funky colors too and the internal debate begins. A few weeks ago, I picked out a yellow OPI color and I was in love! I'm now a fan of bright yellow for the summer.

What nail polish colors do you love for the summer?

Grooming for the Groom

2011-06-06T22:03:00.006-04:00

Image via Google by Darcie Michelle Photography

Everyone obsesses over the bride's look but the groom needs to look good too. Photographer, Stuart Meyer shares some great camera ready tips for grooms on wedding day.

Hair:
Shave the morning of your wedding.
Get a haircut a week beforehand.
Get rid of any hair that might cover your eyes. If you have a mustache or beard, Trim and groom your mustcahe or beard, so it does not look shaggy.
Trim stray nose hairs.

Skin:
Not happy with your skin, seek professional help. Facials are not just for girls. Schedule a facial at least one week before the wedding in case you have an allergic reaction or get blotchy skin and need time to heal.

Teeth:
Schedule a cleaning, if it's been a while since you've seen the dentist.
Want a brighter smile, have your teeth whitened.

Tans:
"A touch-up tan looks good, but the most common mistake is overdoing it. Over-exposed skin looks fake and does not photograph well. If you are into outdoor activities, use sunscreen - the best tan for wedding photography is the one you get when just a bit of sun peeks through the sunscreen to increase your natural melanin production." - Stuart Meyer, Photographer

Hands and Fingernails:
Clip and clean your fingernails at least one day before the wedding.

To read the full list of tips click here.

Happy Planning!

Food Truck Craze!

2011-06-03T10:27:00.006-04:00

Food trucks are making their way to an event near you. I love the idea of incorporating the nostalgic and fun feel of a food truck at a corporate or social event. You'll even see them popping up at weddings.

Charlotte Center City Partners kicked off their "Chow Down Uptown - A Food Truck Festival" last month and it's been going strong every Thursday from 5pm-9pm.

Yesterday, I decided to check-it out and do some research on the food truck scene here in Charlotte. Many of the trucks were lacking the design element that captures your attention when walking the down street, but the food was pretty tasty. My husband and I tasted dishes from Roots Farm Food, Harvest Moon Grille and Roaming Fork. I think we'll definitely have to check-it out again next week because we didn't save room for dessert and there were two cupcake trucks. :-)

Meet the Parents!

2011-06-01T20:56:00.003-04:00

Image via Google

Marriage is not only the joining of two people, but it is also the coming together of two families.

Here are 5 tips from About.com for "How to get Along with Your In-Laws".

1. Get to know your in-laws.
"When you decide to seriously date and then marry a person, you must make it a point to open your heart and mind to his or her family. When invited to the home of your in-laws, you must talk to your hosts. Make conversation. Ask questions about the family history. Offer to help set the table. Join in the fun if someone is playing a game. Be friendly without being pushy. It's a fine line, but it will help you score points and get to know your new family."
- Francesca Di Meglio

About.com also features some great ice-breaker questions/comments for getting to know your spouse's family. Click here to read the article.

2. Find your niche in the family.
"Once you know everyone, and everyone knows you, you must find your niche in the family. That means you need to determine where you fit in and what you can contribute. No one wants to be the black sheep. Your husband or wife can help you get along with his or her family. Your spouse, for instance, can introduce you to cousin Stella, who enjoys knitting as much as you do. Or your husband can encourage his mom to invite you to the annual girls day at the spa that she has with her daughters and nieces. Your spouse can also smooth things over if you're ever misunderstood by the in-laws. All these things go a long way to helping you find your place and determine the kind of relationship you'll have with your in-laws."
- Francesca Di Meglio

3. Establish relationships with your in-laws.
"Often, people tip-toe around issues rather than coming out and saying what is on their minds. Instead of assuming that your in-laws would like this type or that type of relationship with you, you should just come out and ask them. Discuss the particulars of your relationship, such as whether you'd be comfortable calling them mom and dad or the limits you'd like to set when it comes to family visits and advice about housekeeping and parenting. If you discuss these issues up front, then they should be less of a problem for everyone down the road."
- Francesca Di Meglio

4. Stop the meddling mother-in-law.
"Pushy mothers-in-law are the subject of many jokes, but they are also a reality for many families. Not everyone has to deal with this step. But a meddling mother-in-law can wreak havoc on a couple's relationship. They can cause arguments between husband and wife, make their in-laws feel like outsiders or as though they're being judged, and they can try to steal center stage. Most of the time, their intentions are good. They think they are helping the couple. Or they feel left out of their child's new married life. Fear of losing a child can drive a mother to do crazy things. Patience and understanding can get you all through this difficult transitional phase."
- Francesca Di Meglio

5. Resolve in-law problems.
"Families breed love, but they also breed problems. There are growing pains whenever someone new enters the family dynamic. Then, there are also other problems, ones you often start to face when you're planning your wedding -- from divorced parents who put their kid (your spouse) in the middle of their arguments to parents who never thought anyone, not even you, was good enough for their son or daughter. Besides these problems, there are issues that arise everyday about things, such as how you're raising your kids or where you'll spend the holidays. All of these problems require a resolution. To solve problems, you have to be able to communicate openly and diplomatically."
- Francesca Di Meglio

Do you get along with your in-laws? What advise would you give newly married couples?

Charlotte Wedding: Valecia + John 3.5.11

2011-05-30T20:21:00.001-04:00

Valecia and John kicked of the 2011 wedding season for the SPE Team back in March. What a great couple! I had the pleasure of designing and coordinating a chic and modern uptown wedding at the Charlotte City Club. Valecia was in love with two color palettes when we met, but after our initial walk-through at the City Club I recommended we move forward with fun and warm jewel tones: fuchsia, teal, navy and purple. The smoky purple was inspired by a beautiful victorian lilac crinkle taffeta linen.

The wedding was absolutely beautiful, from the vibrant teal bridesmaid dresses, to the lush florals and Wow Factor cake. The couple had a wonderful time sharing this milestone with family and friends and the party rocked all night with music from Spintastic Sounds, the Happy Booth by Lucy Parker Photography and a fabulous lounge area set-up by Style Perfect Events, so guests could enjoy the Duke and Carolina game. The bride went to Duke for both undergrad and graduate school.

The amazing vendors that were involved in creating Valecia and John’s uptown wedding were:
Photography: Lucy Parker Photography
Ceremony: St. Martins Episcopal Church
Reception: Nathan at the Charlotte City Club
Flowers: From this Day Forward Wedding and Special Event Design
Cake: Wow Factor Cakes
Stationery: Richard at Red Stone Press (invitations) and Michelle at Creative Blu (guest seating chart, table numbers and place cards)
Calligraphy: Lyncrist Calligraphy Studio
Linens: Cloth Connection
DJ/Lighting: Todd at Spintastic Sounds
Rentals: Party Reflections
Lounge Furniture: AFR Furniture Rental
Transportation: Rose Chauffeured Transportation

You can view more pictures at Lucy Parker Photography.

Honoring a Loved One at your Wedding

2011-05-27T10:02:00.003-04:00

Image via Google by Photographer Sakura Photography

When planning your wedding, it can be difficult to think of ways to honor the memory of those who've passed.

If you and your fiance are looking to memorialize a family member or friend at your wedding, here are a few ways to acknowledge and celebrate the life of that person or persons.

Light a candle in their honor.
This can be done before the ceremony starts and can remain lit throughout the wedding or it can be lit during the ceremony, with a brief explanation in your program of its purpose. Or, the officiant can say a few words in honor of your loved one as the candle is lit at a specific point during the ceremony

Save a seat in the front row.
You can place a flower or a memento in a seat in the front row or have a family member of friend walk into the ceremony and place the flower or memento on the seat of the loved one.

Keep them close to you.
Wear or hold onto something of your loved one or in honor of them, such as walk down the aisle with the same bouquet that your mother carried at her wedding or a bouquet made up of her favorite flower, wear a locket with your grandfather's picture inside or wear your father's favorite cuff links.

Photo display.
Set-up an area at the ceremony or reception with framed photographs of your family member of friend.

Dedication through a poem.
Include in your ceremony program a poem, short story or letter dedicated to your loved one. This provides a subtle remembrance that all of your guests can read and even those who may have not known them will be able to commemorate the memory of your loved one.

Be Inspired: Sparkle and Bedazzle!

2011-05-25T07:58:00.001-04:00

Weddinggawker is one of my favorite sources for daily wedding inspiration and today on Weddinggawker this wedding via The Bijou Bride's blog stopped me in my tracks! I love glitz and sparkle! Check-out this stunning wedding from photographers, We Heart Pictures.

Signature Summer Cocktail!

2011-05-23T16:18:00.000-04:00

Signature cocktails are such a fun way to personalize your wedding! My favorite cocktail for the summer, which will give you a nice tropical red color is the "Woo". The ingredients are vodka, cranberry and peach schnapps. Yum!

What is your favorite summer drink?

Are you planning to serve a signature cocktail at your wedding? Check-out some fabulous inspiration pictures from the Knot.

Destination Carolina Wedding: Kristen+Mario 4.17.11

2011-05-20T10:52:00.007-04:00

In April, the SPE Team had the pleasure of designing and coordinating a beautiful South Carolina wedding for Kristen and Mario at the Inn at Palmetto Bluff. What a sweet couple! We had a great time planning and styling the decor and design details for their wedding day and making sure the guests had a wonderful time! Here are a few pictures from Kristen and Mario's wedding captured by Savannah based photographers Jade and Matthew from Jade and Matthew Take Pictures. Enjoy!

Special thank you to all of the vendors involved!
Venue/Catering: Kelly and the fabulous team at the Inn at Palmetto Bluff
Photographers: Jade and Mathhew Take Pictures
Videographers: Absolute Productions and Media
Florist: Sue Burden
Linens: Cloth Connection
Cake: Bride's Cousin

Sugar! Candy Tables

2011-05-18T21:04:00.008-04:00

Image via Google Photography by the Artist Group/Design by Sugar Mama's LLC

Candy and dessert tables are here to stay. Everyone loves the nostalgic feeling that sweets give you. They are also great for getting your guests moving and interacting.

With that being said, the million dollar question for all brides and party hosts when they decide they want to incorporate a candy table is "how much candy to buy?"

My first suggestion is to figure out the number of guests and how many different types of candy you want to display. Candy comes in different shapes, sizes and weight, so you want to make sure that you're not going over board. Project Wedding suggests purchasing 1/2 cup (4 oz) of candy per person, which I think is a great gauge. Another website, Big Wedding Tiny Budget, suggests 1/4 lb (4 oz) or 1/2 lb (8 oz). My vote is for the 4 oz because your guests will have already eaten plenty during the cocktail hour and dinner, along with the wedding cake.

Make sure to check-out Project Wedding for additional tips.

Bridesmaids

2011-05-16T13:14:00.004-04:00

This weekend I saw Bridesmaids and I only have one word to describe the movie, "CLASSIC". I did not have any expectations going in to the movie because I had only seen the preview a few times, but the first scene had me crying laughing. The movie is definitely not your typical chick flick. It's a comedy! A great comedy at that, with an all female cast. I felt so empowered after watching the movie because these ladies are really funny! I will definitely buy this movie on DVD!

Inspired by Capiz Shells

2011-05-13T15:11:00.007-04:00

Capiz shells are beautiful. The fresh and airy look of the shell transports me to a far away island or resort. Take your guests on a journey to a breathtaking island by incorporating capiz shells into your design and decor.

Image: West Elm

Image: Google Images via Designs by Hemingway

Image: The Knot

Image: West Elm

Who Pays for What?

2011-05-11T21:55:00.000-04:00

Now that you’re engaged and have started planning your dream wedding…“who pays for what?”

Per Emily Post, here are the traditional expense responsibilities of all the various aspects surrounding a wedding celebration. I’ve added in some commentary in quotes, based on my experience with couple’s and their families.

Traditional Expenses of the Bride and Her Family
• Services of a traditional wedding consultant
• Invitations, enclosures, and announcements
• The bride’s wedding gown and accessories
• Floral decorations for ceremony and reception, bridesmaids’ flowers, bride’s bouquet
• Formal wedding photographs and candid pictures
• Video of wedding
• Music for church and reception
• Transportation of bridal party to and from ceremony
• All reception expenses
• Bride’s gifts to her attendants
• Bride’s gift to groom
• Groom’s wedding ring
• Rental of awning for ceremony entrance and carpet for aisle “And any additional items needed for the ceremony: unity candle, ceremony programs, etc.”
• Fee for services performed by sexton
• Costs of soloists
• Services of a traffic officer “You don’t see this service widely used.”
• Transportation of bridal party to the reception
• Transportation and lodging expenses for the officiant if from another town and if invited to officiate by the bride’s family
• Accommodations for bridal attendants
• Bridesmaids’ luncheon

Traditional Expenses of the Groom and His Family
• Bride’s engagement and wedding rings
• Groom’s gift to bride
• Gifts for groom’s attendants
• Ties and gloves for the groom’s attendants, if not part of their clothing rental package
• The bride’s bouquet (only where it is local custom for the groom to pay for it)
• The bride’s going away corsage
• Boutonnieres for groom’s attendants “Many times the bride’s family pays for the entire florist order and does not separate out the boutonnieres for the groom’s attendants.”
• Corsages for immediate members of both families (unless the bride has included them in her florist’s order)
• The officiant’s fee or donation
• Transportation and lodging expenses for the officiant, if from another town and if invited to officiate by the groom’s family
• The marriage license
• Transportation for the groom and best man to the ceremony
• Honeymoon expenses
• All costs of the rehearsal dinner
• Accommodations for the groom’s attendants
• Bachelor dinner, if the groom wishes to give one
• Transportation and lodging expenses for the groom’s family

Bridesmaids’/Honor Attendants’ Expenses
• Purchase of apparel and all accessories
• Transportation to and from the city where the wedding takes place
• A contribution to a gift from all the bridesmaids to the bride
• An individual gift to the couple
• Optionally, a shower or luncheon for the bride

Best Man’s/Groomsmen’s/Ushers’ Expenses
• Rental or purchase of wedding attire
• Transportation to and from the city where the wedding takes place
• A contribution to a gift from all the groom’s attendants to the groom
• An individual gift to the couple
• A bachelor dinner, if given by the groom’s attendants

Out-of-Town Guests’ Expenses
• Transportation to and from the wedding
• Lodging expenses and meals
• Wedding gift

SPE Featured on Wedding Row Charlotte

2011-05-09T17:25:00.007-04:00

We are very excited to announce that the new blog for Charlotte Brides, Wedding Row, featured our couple Jennifer and Daniel who were married last fall at the Peninsula Yacht Club.

Make sure you check-out Wedding Row Charlotte for inspiration and the latest in Charlotte weddings.

Fabulous Local Store Find: Z Gallerie

2011-05-06T09:48:00.004-04:00

I haven't blogged about Z Gallerie lately and they are such an awesome resource and inspiration for design and decor. Here are a few great finds and an online coupon code!

$7.99 - SALE

$9.89

$9.95

$9.95-$12.95

Happy Planning!

Receive 10% off your online order (sale items excluded). Coupon Code is "TakeTen04"

Royal Wedding Dress

2011-05-04T13:22:00.009-04:00

Many brides opt to wear strapless gowns. In selecting your wedding gown, would you go "royal" and wear sleeves?

Image: Pronovias Costura 2012 Bridal Collection

Priscilla of Boston 2011
Image: Wedding Inspirasi

Marchesa Bridal Spring 2012
Image: Wedding Inspirasi

Jesu Peiro Bridal 2011
Image: Wedding Inspirasi

Carolina Herrera 2012
Image: Wedding Inspirasi

Sew Fun!

2011-05-02T20:02:00.005-04:00

I LOVE crafting with and for my brides! Incorporating at least one DIY aspect to your wedding day brings such an element of love and personality.

For the past four weeks, I've been learning how to sew! One of my many sources for inspiration is fabric. I love the color and texture fabric can bring to any design element.

Here is a camera picture of the zipper that I sewed in class. This week we're sewing pajama bottoms! ;-)

2011 EVIE Awards - Pictures

2011-04-29T21:29:00.000-04:00

I promised pictures! So here are few shots from the Greater Charlotte Chapter of the International Special Events Society 2011 EVIE Awards. Photography by Catch Light Studio and Robert Christopher Photography. Enjoy! I had a great time Co-chairing this annual event for the special events industry in Charlotte.

You can view more pictures on the ISES Facebook Fan Page.

Committee for 2011 EVIE Awards and our host Jon Wilson from Fox News Rising

2011 EVIE Award Winners

Looking for an Organist

2011-04-27T10:13:00.004-04:00

Image: Dave and Charlotte Lifestyle Photographers via Google Images

If you are planning a church wedding in Charlotte and are looking for an organist, please check-out the Charlotte Chapter of the American Guild of Organists.

Organists that have the "O" code by their name are available for weddings and special events.

Happy Planning!

Are You a Fan?

2011-04-25T07:18:00.005-04:00

Style Perfect Weddings and Events is on Facebook!

This week we're introducing our Daily Facebook Digest.
Monday - Be Inspired
Tuesday - DIY Day
Wednesday - Etsy Finds
Thursday - Party Planning Tips and Inspiration
Friday - Around the Town in Charlotte!

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Fox News Rising - International Special Events Society

2011-04-01T15:28:00.006-04:00

On Tuesday, I had the opportunity to be on Fox News Rising alongside my colleagues from the Greater Charlotte Chapter of the International Special Events Society (ISES) as we promoted our 2011 Events In Excellence Awards Gala.

I mentioned before on the blog that I was the Co-chair for the event and it was very exciting to see everything come to life. The theme was sports/competition and we pulled out all of the stops for the special events industry here in the Carolinas. We had Jon Wilson from Fox News as our host, an appearance from the Carolina Panther mascot, Sir Purr, the Livingstone College marching band, and more!

Check back later for pictures from the event.

It's April Already!

2011-03-31T21:53:00.001-04:00

March was a busy month for Style Perfect Events, so here is a look back at what we were up to.

Vanity 7 Studio Launch Event
Photographer: The Beautiful Mess

Real Charlotte Wedding: Valecia and John (sneak peek)
Photographer: Lucy Parker Photography

Greater Charlotte Chapter of the International Special Events Society (ISES) 2011 EVIE Awards (sneak peek)
Picture of Jon Wilson, anchor from Fox News Rising

We will post more pictures from Valecia and John's wedding and the EVIE Awards in the next weeks to come.

Flower Girl Dresses

2011-03-17T09:25:00.007-04:00

A couple of years ago I wrote a post about finding flower girls dresses (you can read the post here). I wanted to re-post it since spring will be here on Sunday and Easter next month.

"Spring is the season for great SALES! Check out department stores for your little flower girl. A flower girl dress can cost up to $150. Yes! almost as much as your bridesmaid dresses. Now is the time to shop, as you can find a bargain at all the major department stores. Check-out these fun and fabulous flower girl dresses that can be found at Target, Macy's, Kohl’s, JC Penny, and Dillard’s.

P.S. - Have fun with the flower girl dress! Play with patterns and colors. Children participating in a wedding bring charm and whimsy to the festivities!"

Here are a few selections from Target and Macy's. On sale NOW!

Target- $20

Target - $50

Macy's - $40

Macy's - $30

Macy's - $30

Fun Find on Etsy

2011-03-16T21:49:00.004-04:00

Everyone who knows me knows that I LOVE fashion accessories! Today on Weddings Unveiled they featured jewelery designer tree & kimball by Lisa Bruemmer. Her designs are so different and fun! They're also affordable! Check out her etsy store here.

Gift "Green"

2011-03-14T11:38:00.001-04:00

We must take care of our planet, so it is very important that we take steps to reduce our carbon foot print. One easy and small step that you can take is placing those birthday or shower gifts in a stylish reusable shopping bag, instead of a paper bag that will probably be tossed away.

I always purchase my reusable shopping "gift" bags from Pier 1 Imports! They have really cute colors and patterns to chose from.

Fabulous Local Store Find: "Fierce!"

2011-03-13T20:27:00.000-04:00

Today's local store find is a personal one, but I had to share!

I love a great find at a fabulous price, so while at the mall this weekend I spotted these "fierce" shoes in the window of Payless and to my delight they were designed by Project Runway winner Christian Siriano, whose famous line during his season was "fierce".

These shoes are totally "fierce" and I will be placing my order this week!

2011 EVIE Awards

2011-03-07T21:49:00.002-05:00

I'm on the board for the Greater Charlotte Chapter of the International Special Events Society and this year I was asked to Co-chair our annual EVIE Awards Gala and Fundraiser. This event recognizes event professionals through-out the Carolinas by celebrating outstanding achievement in a variety of disciplines including event planning, production, catering, graphics and more.

I'm really excited about this year's event because we have a lot of fun surprises in-store and will be introducing the new People's Choice Award.

For the People's Choice Award we asked area designers, florists and planners to create a table top design inspired by our theme: sports/competition. We also asked local caterers to create a dish that best represents their take on game day/stadium food. Guests in attendance at the EVIE Awards will be able to vote on the best food and best table top design.

The details for the event are below:

I hope to see all Charlotte event professionals in attendance as we celebrate the special events industry!

2011 Wedding Season

2011-02-28T08:46:00.001-05:00

We are so excited here at Style Perfect Events to kick off our 2011 wedding season this weekend at the Charlotte City Club with a wonderful couple that we can't wait to celebrate with.

Here is a sneak peak of their wedding day style. Their photographer is the awesome and fun Lucy Parker, so be on the look out for pictures from their wedding day.

Style Perfect Events "Wedding Day" Team

2011-02-25T08:59:00.010-05:00

I'm a big believer in team work and since last year I've had the pleasure of being able to work with two wonderful coordinators Nicole and Morgan. These ladies are my right hand gals when it comes to crafting, setting-up the wedding day, greeting guests and tending to the wedding party. They will be working with me again for the 2011 wedding season.

Say hello to Nicole and Morgan!

**Me (Carla)**

**Nicole**

**Morgan**

Credits:
Photographer: M. Clay Photography
Make-up: Adrian Howe of the Beauty Sophisticate

Honeymoon: Sail Away!

2011-02-24T08:28:00.002-05:00

Last week my family and I celebrated my mother's 60th birthday on a Carnival Cruise Ship. We had a fabulous time. This was my first time cruising and it is a very different traveling experience, as a cruise is all inclusive and you can eat yourself into a coma. There are also lots of fun activities for day and night. As well as, you get to visit several different locations during your cruise and can sign-up for tours, water activities and shopping excursions right on the cruise ship.

That being said, if you're looking for a relaxing honeymoon spot that does not require a lot of research and pre-planning a cruise is definitely an awesome option. It will allow you to enjoy each other's company without having to worry about where you're going to eat for dinner or what tourist attractions to enjoy.

There are many cruise lines, but after talking to several people about cruises it seems that Royal Caribbean is the favorite of many. Your local AAA agent can help you get started.

Happy Planning!

Munaluchi Bridal Magazine

2011-02-15T12:23:00.015-05:00

We are very excited to announce that our "Urban Chic" inspiration photo-shoot was picked-up by Munaluchi Bridal magazine for their 2011 Spring/Summer issue. The issue went on sale on Friday and you can pick-up copies at Target, Borders Book Store and more. Turn to page 114 to check-out our feature. ;-)

Munaluchi Bridal is the premiere source of wedding inspiration for women of color who crave culture and style. The Spring/Summer issue has over 200 full color pages of bridal fashion, african-inspired designs, and honeymoon hot spots.

Image: The Beautiful Mess

Image: The Beautiful Mess

Special thank you to the super sweet and talented husband and wife team Candice and Dan Lanning of The Beautiful Mess for their amazing work and photography.

Check-out additional images from the photo-shoot and names of vendors at the links below.
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Vendors

Food Presentation

2011-02-13T21:55:00.000-05:00

As a self-proclaimed foody, I not only love great food, but I swoon over fabulous presentation. When planning your wedding or next social event, don't forget about the little details when it comes to displaying your menu. Your guests "first taste" is with their eyes.

Here's some YUMMY inspiration! (all images via Charlotte caterer's La-Tea-Da's Catering)

Playful Seating Arrangements - Lounge Furnitue

2011-02-11T09:22:00.001-05:00

Incorporating fun seating arrangements for your guests is always a great way to create a casual, but swanky and modern atmosphere. Here are some price ranges to get you started, if you are considering incorporating playful seating arrangements in to your big day.

Sofa - $200+

Ottoman - $150+

Chair - $125+

Chiavari Chair - $9+

Ghost Chair - $25+

Chamelon Chair - $13.25+

Rocking Chair - $20+

Cupcake Fondue

2011-02-01T08:50:00.003-05:00

How cute is this entertaining idea!

"Cupcake Fondue"

Idea and images by Amanda of Bake it Pretty on Pintsize Social via Celebrations at Home.

Wedding Day Make-up

2011-01-31T09:49:00.005-05:00

I've always known about airbrush make-up, but was always a little skeptical. Airbrush make-up sounds so harsh and it seems like it would run down your face if you get too hot.

Well, my concerns have been debunked!

Yesterday I took new headshots, since I have a new haircut, and Adrian Howe of the Beauty Sophisticate did my make-up and I was very pleased with how smooth and lightweight the airbrush foundation felt. It also didn't run down my face with the warm weather we had yesterday in Charlotte.

Here's a camera pic of my "airbrushed" look! ;-) Stay tuned for my new headshots taken by M. Clay Photography.

It's all about the TEAM!

2011-01-29T08:51:00.001-05:00

One of the best parts of my job is being able to meet with new wedding professionals. I love learning about people and discovering what makes them who they are. Last week I had the pleasure of meeting with Rev. Tod Coles of Big Love Weddings and Amanda Pagano of Isabel's Corner Videography.

There is a large selection of wedding professionals, so as a wedding planner it is our job to always stay on top of the industry, market and people that make up the wedding business, so that we can deliver a fabulous wedding experience for our clients. It's all about the TEAM!

Rev. Tod Cole is fairly new to the wedding industry and has a heart felt story on how he get started in the business, as the officiant for his niece's wedding.

Tod has been a member of Davidson United Methodist Church for the past decade and although he does not have his own church or congregation, "he feels that it is a great honor to serve God and every bride and groom (regardless of their individual beliefs) by helping loving couples enter the holy sacrament of marriage."

Tod has an awesome down to earth personality and would be a joy to work with on any wedding!

Check-out Big Love Weddings.

Amanda Pagano of Isabel's Corner Videography, I had the chance to meet briefly last year and really enjoyed the wedding mosaic that she put together for one of my 2010 clients! This week we were able to sit down and chat and Amanda has a true passion for videography and the craft. You can check-out some of her work here.

Cooking Classes in Charlotte

2011-01-28T20:35:00.001-05:00

Looking for a great date spot or something fun and different to do with the girls! Harper's Restaurant group in Charlotte has introduced a fabulous line up of cooking classes for 2011.

For $35 per class, you will learn from the executive chef's of top restaurants: Upstream, Mimosa Grill and Zink American Kitchen.

Here is a "taste" of some of the upcoming classes you can enjoy:

February 19th - "Southwestern vs. Tex Mex" at Zink American Kitchen

March 5th - "Say Cheese..a simple approach to cheese making" at Mimosa Grill

March 26th - "Seafood Butchery" at Upstream

For the full 2011 calendar of classes check-out www.harpersrestaurants.com.

Be Inspired: Edible Escort Cards

2011-01-21T09:02:00.004-05:00

I love Martha Stewart Weddings! Check-out these awesome lolipop escort cards. How cute and practical. Love them!

Image: Martha Stewart Weddings

Happy Friday!

Charlotte Restaurant Week is Back!

2011-01-20T08:53:00.000-05:00

I'm so excited! Charlotte Restaurant Week is taking place Friday, January 21st-Sunday, January 30th.

I love this time of the year because you get to enjoy fine dining at a fraction of the price. During restaurant week participating upscale restaurants in the Charlotte metro area offer 3-course prix fixe dinner menus for only $30 per person. What a treat!

For a list of the participating restaurants check-out this link.
http://www.charlotterestaurantweek.com/restaurants.html

Where will you be dining for restaurant week?

Charlotte Perfect Wedding Guide Bridal Show

2011-01-10T11:12:00.007-05:00

This past Sunday, Style Perfect Weddings and Events participated in the Perfect Wedding Guide Bridal Show at the Hilton Charlotte University Place! We had a great time chatting with brides and hope to work with many of you all soon.

Here are a few pictures from our tabletop display. Thank you so much to my fabulous florist Barbara of From This Day Forward Wedding and Special Event Design. The flowers were absolutely stunning! She also did the cake!

Brides who attended the show, make sure to give us a call to get in on the exclusive floral and event design limited offer.

Me and Barbara! She stayed at the show to help me out. ;-)

Big thank you to my awesome assistants, Nicole and Morgan, that were also on hand to answer questions from brides! Thank you ladies!

Happy Planning!

Fabulous Local Store Finds!

2011-01-07T17:46:00.005-05:00

I have some great finds for you!

While in DC for New Year's, I stumbled across this fabulous dress at H&M for $40 that could also be a trendy and affordable bridesmaid dress. The hem of the dress falls right at your knee. Your girls really could wear this again!

My next finds are from Michael's Craft Store. I absolutely love a great deal and always check-out the "One Spot" at Target and the dollar section at Michael's.

If your summer wedding colors are green and orange, check-out these bright and preppy favor tags and fun mini-frames. All for a $1.

Here are some cool colorful clothes-pins that you can incorporate into your design for a birthday party, baby shower or more.

As you can see, I was like a kid in a candy store...here is one more great item! Monogram clothes hooks. How cute! You can hang these and add a beautiful floral wreathe to the hook to make an awesome statement on your ceremony and/or reception doors.

Are You Covered?

2011-01-03T18:27:00.005-05:00

You have the ring, you've set a date, you said "yes" to the dress, picked out your wedding colors, tasted cakes...but are you covered?

After the proposal, brides, make sure you get insurance for your wedding ring. In today's post by Darcy Miller of Martha Stewart Weddings, she provided a few tips for getting started with wedding planning, one of which was "Insure Your Ring".

Although you may plan on never taking off your engagement ring or wedding band, there will most certainly be times when you have to remove it, so plan ahead.

To get insurance for your ring, you will first need to have an appraisal by a certified gemologist, which your fiance should have received upon purchase. Make sure that your or your fiance reviews the terms of the policy for the ring. Many jewelers may ask that you come in once a month for cleaning and maintenance.

Next, talk to an insurance agent about your options in the case that a stone or the ring itself needs to be repaired or replaced.

You may be able to add a jewelry rider to your existing homeowners or renter's policy, but if not, definitely set up a separate policy.

Newly engaged brides...are you covered...? Leave a comment.

So...it's 2011!

2011-01-02T18:22:00.001-05:00

Where did 2010 go…?

This past year has been an amazing journey filled with great accomplishments and many lessons learned. I am so thankful and appreciative for all of the blessings that have come my way this year and look forward to what 2011 has in store, as the best is yet to come!

Thank you to my family, friends, clients (past, present and future) and wonderful colleagues. You all are the best!

Have a wonderful 2011!

January 2011 Bridal Shows

2010-12-28T19:23:00.007-05:00

Image via Google by Illustrator Brooke Hagel (Check-out more of Brooke's work at her Etsy site)

It's engagement season and it's time to kick off the 2011 Bridal Shows in Charlotte. If you have plans to be wed in the Charlotte area make sure to check-out these bridal shows in January.

Sunday, January 9th
1pm-4pm
Perfect Wedding Guide Winter Bridal Show and Expo
Hilton Charlotte University Place
8629 JM Keynes Drive
Charlotte, NC 28262
Cost: $5
www.charlottebridalshow.com

Sunday, January 23rd
12pm-5pm
The Bridal Showcase
Charlotte Convention Center
501 S. College St.
Charlotte, NC 28202
Cost: $12 at the door and $10 online
www.carolinaweddingsandevents.com

Style Perfect Events will have a booth at the January 9th bridal show at the Hilton Charlotte University Place. Make sure to stop by our booth to say "Hi!" and to learn about our fabulous new event design services for 2011!

25 Things You Don't Know About Me!

2010-12-27T14:36:00.028-05:00

I love reading blogs, books and websites about weddings, special events, design and business and one blog that I follow is "Cocktail Details", by the awesome wedding planner, Terrrica Skaggs. Her post today detailed "25 things you don't know about me", so I'm going to keep it going, as well.

Here are 25 things you don't know about me:
1. When I was 16 years old I attended the Summer Intensive Pre-Professional Program at Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater in New York City.
2. I love reality TV! (VHI, Bravo, Food Network, MTV...I watch them all)
3. I attended the same school for 10 years (pre-school through 8th grade), Bates Academy in Detroit.
4. My younger brother, who I always call my "little" brother is only 13 months younger than me.
5. I wore braces for 2 years in high-school.
6. The origin of my married name "Eustache" is Haitian/French. My father-in-law is from Haiti.
7. I love to teach.
8. I introduced my eldest brother to his future wife, see post here.
9. I played the piano, violin and flute as a child.
10. I will always say I'm from Detroit, no matter if I end up living in Charlotte or another city for 20+ years.
11. I'm a fashion jewelry junkie!
12. I love to cook. My cooking style is that of Rachel Ray's 30 minute meals and Semi-homemade by Sandra Lee.
13. I was the captain of my dance team my senior year, the Howard University Bisonettes!
14. My name and my brothers' names all start with the letter "C" because my dad's name is Charles.
15. After watching several seasons of Top Chef, I now consider myself a foodie and I love trying new restaurants.
16. I volunteer at the CVAN Re-Sale shop in Concord once a month. Proceeds benefit battered women and children. Giving back is very important to me.
17. I used to own an online fashion jewelry company called Boutique Finesse.
18. I collect elephant figurines.
19. I don't have an I-pod.
20. At 11 years old I traveled to Germany for a month long summer camp, Children's International Summer Village (CISV).
21. One of my favorite comfort dishes is chicken flavor ramen noodles.
22. I know how to tap dance.
23. I'm allergic to many kinds of fruits, which makes me sad. Fruit always looks good and it's healthy for you.
24. I've never had a pet.
25. While living in New York, I auditioned for Beyonce's 2009 world tour. Needless to say I didn't make the cut, but I did get to see Beyonce! She was at the audition.

What about you? Leave a comment!

Cheers!

2010-12-20T11:19:00.001-05:00

Image via Google

When planning a wedding or party food and beverage is always a very important part of the equation. It is also a major expenditure in your budget. One way to save is to provide your own alcohol, but first make sure that your venue allows this and there are no additional fees associated with bringing in your own liquor. Next make sure your bar is fully covered and that you have all of the supplies you need, such as a bartender who is properly equipped with (shakers, ice tongs) and you have proper glasses (martini, wine, champagne, high-ball), which your caterer can provide at a rental rate. Most importantly you want to make sure that you have enough liquor. According to “The Knot Book of Wedding Lists” by Carley Roney you should have the following amount of alcohol for a standard open bar, per 100 guests for a four hour reception.

Champagne: 18 bottles
Red wine: 10 bottles
White wine: 18 bottles
Beer: 2-3 cases
Whiskey: 1-2 liters
Bourbon: 1-2 liters
Gin: 1-2 liters
Scotch: 3 liters
Rum: 2 liters
Vodka: 6 liters
Tequila: 1 liter
Dry vermouth: 2 bottles
Sweet vermouth: 2 bottles
Tonic: 1 case
Club soda: 1 case
Cranberry juice: 2 gallons
Orange juice: 1 gallon
Grapefruit juice: 1 gallon

If you are getting ready to host a party Real Simple has great food and beverage calculators to help you determine how much food and liquor to buy and prepare.

Wedding Wine and Liquor Calculator
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Party Food and Beverage Calculator
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Real Wedding at The Biltmore Estate: Cynthia + Daniel 10.2.10

2010-12-17T10:16:00.000-05:00

If you do not live in the Carolinas or watch HGTV religiously you may not be familiar with The Biltmore Estate. The Biltmore is the largest privately owned home in the country and it is spectacular! I've had the pleasure of touring this remarkable landmark located in Asheville, North Carolina three times and every visit I'm even more amazed by the vision of George Vanderbilt. The house covers 4 acres, totaling 175,000 square feet and consists of 250 rooms that include 35 guest and family rooms, 43 bathrooms, 65 fireplaces, and three kitchens. Amazing!

This past October, Style Perfect Events had the honor of assisting Cynthia and Daniel with tying up the loose ends on their destination wedding at the Biltmore and coordinating the day.

The couple had a quaint wedding for family and friends that took place in the lush Butterfly Garden and Conservatory. The weather was beautiful and the fall foliage was just starting to make it's grand entrance.

Here are a few pictures from their wedding day. The photographer was David Edge from Photo Edge Photography.

Dressing for the New Year

2010-12-07T14:17:00.007-05:00

One of my favorite parts of the holiday season besides being with family and friends is shopping for a party dress for New Year's Eve! This tradition started about five years ago when my now husband then boyfriend and I made plans to attend a New Year's Eve party in Charlotte and I spent all day shopping for the perfect dress. Since, then we've decided to travel to a new destination each year to ring in the New Year and I get a NEW dress. We've celebrated in cities like Miami, Las Vegas and Atlanta and every year I spend hours searching for a fabulous cocktail dress!

Here are some of the styles that I'm loving this year!

What are your plans for New Year's Eve?

Matchmaker

2010-12-06T11:05:00.004-05:00

Today's post is a personal one because I am so excited about my brother's engagement to his girlfriend! He proposed yesterday evening and I couldn't be more happy for the both of them.

I have three brothers and I am definitely a very protective and particular sister when it comes to the women in their lives. That being said, back in 2008 I took matters into my own hands and one evening while chatting on the phone with my wedding coordinator we talked about our family and to my delight she had a daughter that was the same age as my eldest brother. We both shared details about our loved ones and I thought hmmm...I absolutely adore my wedding coordinator....so her daughter has to be fabulous too. Sure enough when my wedding day came around, my wedding coordinator brought her daughter to the wedding to help out and I gladly introduced her to my brother and the rest is history!

I'll be sure to share details about their engagement and nuptials!

Image: My fabulous wedding photographer Tony Schreiber

No Center Aisle

2010-12-04T10:28:00.005-05:00

Images: via Google and Clark Berry Photography

You've found the perfect church or location for your wedding ceremony, but there's no center aisle! No worries. There are many ways to make it work. For a medium-size wedding, you can have your guests seated in the center section of the church or venue and have the wedding party process up the left aisle and walk down the right aisle for the recessional. For a larger number of wedding guests that will fill all sections of the church or venue you can process up either the right or left aisle. Just make sure you make a decision on what you would like to do before you get to the wedding rehearsal, so everyone is clear on where to go.

Are you getting married at a unique ceremony site and need help with your processional? post your question in the comment section.

Charlotte Wedding: Tameka + Willie 9.25.10

2010-12-02T11:23:00.022-05:00

We not only enjoy planning and coordination at Style Perfect Events, but we also "LOVE" event design!

Tameka and Willie were married in September at the Holiday Inn Center City in Charlotte and we were the Event Designer for their modern and chic nuptials. Tameka came to us with lots of ideas and pictures that she had clipped out of magazines and printed off the Internet, but she had no idea how to turn them into a cohesive wedding look, that would have her guests wowed. We worked with Tameka on streamlining her ideas and creating an inspiration/style board that would be the essence of her wedding vision. We also crafted many unique details for the day, such as, floral pomanders for the ceremony, crossword puzzle game, candy table, bar signage, etc.

The fabulous vendors that were involved in creating Tameka and Willie's uptown wedding were:
Venue: Holiday Inn Center City in Charlotte
Linens: Connie Duglin Speciality Linens and Chair Cover Rentals
Lighting: Tom at Uptown Event Productions
Floral: Party Blooms
Cake: Austin's Bakery and Design
Stationery: Praez Occasions
Rentals: Classic Party Rentals
Lounge Furniture: AFR Furniture Rental
Event Design and Decor: Style Perfect Events

Thank you so much to Pixels on Paper photography for the wonderful images! Please check them out, they are amazing photographers.

Fabulous Local Store Find: Pier 1 Imports

2010-11-23T18:08:00.005-05:00

The past few times I've been in Pier 1 Imports I've stumbled upon some great items that can be used to create a unique seating chart or to display your guest's escort cards.

Check-out these great affordable finds!

Scroll Photo Holder, $10

9 Clip Wall Frame, $28

Magnet Board with Frames, $18

12-Opening Flower Wallframe Photoholder, $20

Charlotte Marriott Center City

2010-11-22T20:48:00.000-05:00

Image: Charlotte Marriott Center City

Last week I had the pleasure of joining a few of my fellow wedding planners for a grand tour and dinner of the Marriott Hotel in Center City. This was my first time at the hotel and I was surprised to learn about the different amenities that set them apart from other hotels in uptown. Such as, they house a swanky wine bar called Savannah Red and a cigar bar called Cutters which has pool tables and authentic Cuban cigars.

Their event space is your typical hotel ballroom, but the staff is very flexible and accommodating and is open to an event designer coming in and transforming the space with draping, lighting, etc. In the ballrooms you are also allowed to hang decor items from the ceiling, which is a plus, if you want to create some extra drama. The hotel even offers lighting packages, which is great! Another hotel feature is their commitment to local ingredients and farmers. We were able to meet with the head chef of the hotel and learn more about his passion for sustainability and creating new and fresh menu ideas for any occasion.

If you are looking for a great venue for your wedding, corporate event or out-of-town guests make sure to check-out the Charlotte Marriott Center City and tell them that Style Perfect Events sent you!

Charlotte Marriott Center City
100 West Trade Street
Charlotte, NC 28202
704-333-9000

Wish Upon a Wedding

2010-11-17T13:07:00.004-05:00

Last week the Wish Upon a Wedding Carolinas chapter hosted their first fundraising gala at the Ritz Carlton. It was a pleasure to be in attendance to support this great charity. Wish Upon a Wedding is the world’s first nonprofit wish granting organization providing weddings and vow renewals for couples facing terminal illness and serious life-altering circumstances, regardless of sexual orientation.

The gala was held to raise funds for the organization to aid them in granting wishes. You can learn more about the organization and how to volunteer or donate at their website.

Please spread the word!

Charlotte Wedding: Katie + Chris 11.14.09

2010-11-15T20:03:00.011-05:00

Last year I had the esteemed pleasure of working with Katie and Chris on their fall nuptials. Style Perfect Events came in mid-way through the planning process and was able to help elevate the design details, finalize vendors and create unique DIY accents.

Katie and Chris were married at the beautiful Mount Pleasant United Methodist Church followed by a reception at the Cabarrus Event Center in Concord.

Here are a few pictures from their big day. Happy One Year Anniversary!

Photographer: Duet Photography

The Brawley House in Mooresville

2010-11-14T16:41:00.000-05:00

Image via The Brawley House

This past week the Brawley House in Mooresville held an open house to showcase their newly remodeled event space to the community and brides. They definitely rolled out the red carpet for the event with valet service and delightful hostesses as you entered.

The house is beautifully decorated and has a large wrap around porch. The grounds are nicely manicured and include two fountains. The Brawley House currently has plans to build a gazebo space for outdoor ceremonies, as well.

I must say, I was very impressed with the venue, although it is off the beaten path. The Brawley House has really done a nice job of making you feel transported to a beautiful southern estate with it's custom wrought iron gates at the entryway and vast grounds that are also fenced in for privacy.

Here are a few camera pictures from the event.

Lake Norman couples make sure to check-out the venue and let them know that Style Perfect Events sent you!

The Brawley House601 Williams St.
Mooresville, NC 28115
704-664-7964

Instant Photo Flipbook

2010-11-09T10:03:00.007-05:00

Image: Your Event Source

Continuing education and growth is very important to me, especially as an event planner. I love providing my clients with insight on ways to have a fabulous event, small or large and to do that I'm constantly reading, researching and attending conferences and workshops. Two weeks ago I attended the BizBash Expo in New York, which is the largest one-day event planning gathering held in several local markets across the US. The show attracts thousands of meeting and event planning professionals. It includes education sessions on relevant topics, entertainment, and exhibits.

I had a wonderful time at the conference and met many new vendors that I'm super excited about collaborating with!

One great vendor at the conference was Memorable Elements, a PicFlips company, that produces Instant Photo Flipbooks, which are super cute and fun for corporate events, birthday parties or weddings.

Learn more about Flipbooks here.

Looking to add Instant Flipbook to your event here in Charlotte contact Your Event Source.

Foldable Flats

2010-11-08T17:58:00.006-05:00

Image via Delicate Soles and Fit In Clouds

With the holiday's rolling around, I've seen several commercials and in-store displays advertising foldable flats. I love the concept and think they will make great holiday or bridesmaid gifts! But, my only thought is...what do you do with your heels once you've swapped them out for the foldable flats...? I like that they are compact and that some even come with a nice wristlet, but what are some situations where you would use foldable flats instead of your regular flats?

Do you own a pair of foldable flats?

What do you do with your heels?

I know I typically bring a larger purse with me, that can fit my shoes, if I know my heels have a time limit and then I throw my ballet flats in my purse.

Hmmm...I think I still may purchase a pair though...advertising gets me every time!

Charlotte Wedding: Jennifer + Daniel 9.25.10

2010-11-02T20:45:00.015-04:00

I had the pleasure of working with two great teachers, Jennifer and Daniel, from the Community School of Davidson on their wedding this past September. Jennifer loves pink, so the day was filled with pops of fuchsia against the modern print of black and white damask. The bride and groom even sat in custom pink chiavari chairs at the reception!

The ceremony took place at Davidson College Presbyterian Church and the reception was at the Peninsula Yacht Club. You can see the inspiration behind the wedding design here.

Thank you so much to all of the vendors that made this wedding day fabulous! My team and I greatly appreciate you.

Ceremony: Davidson College Presbyterian Church
Reception: Peninsula Yacht Club
Photographer: Lucy Parker Photography
Florist: From This Day Forward Wedding and Special Event Design
Cake: Wow Factor Cakes
Rentals: Party Reflections
Lighting: Cooke Rentals
Linens: Cloth Connection
DJ: Matt, Michael Catlow Group
Invitations: Three Little Birds
Additional Stationery and Signage: Style Perfect Weddings and Events
Transportation: Road Trip Transportation
Nanny Service: Carolina Preferred Sitters
Guest Hotel: Homewood Suites in Davidson
Wedding After Party: The Dirty Martini

McGill Rose Garden in NoDa

2010-11-01T16:45:00.006-04:00

A few weeks ago McGill Rose Garden in NoDa hosted an open house to showcase their event space for weddings. This was my first time at the gardens and I just absolutely love this outdoor space. It's an "urban oasis" surrounded by so many unique elements of nature and city living. An old train sits on the property and can serve as the backdrop to your ceremony. Through-out the gardens there are statues, fountains and park bench seating. It's really serene.

McGill Rose Garden
940 North Davidson Street
Charlotte, NC 28206
704-333-6497

Here are a few camera pictures from the event!

DIY: Hot Chocolate To Go!

2010-10-19T06:38:00.004-04:00

Growing up in Detroit, I definitely love the fall season, with haunted houses, hay rides, pumpkin picking, warm apple cider, hot chocolate and fresh donuts.

Check-out this cute DIY Hot Chocolate Favor!

Love it!

Make sure to head over to the Ruffled Blog for more unique do-it-yourself wedding projects, last week they kicked off their DIY Contest.

My Fair Wedding

2010-10-16T11:19:00.003-04:00

Guess who's coming to Charlotte, David Tutera!

Behind the Scenes Inc. is sponsoring a two day event with David Tutera at the Hilton Charlotte University Place on April 1-2.

Get your tickets now for the first event, a VIP Cocktail Party that will feature a Q&A session and book signing. The second event will include a wedding presentation by David Tutera, Q&A and book signing.

Click here for more details on this event.

Sample Sale: New York Bride and Groom

2010-10-15T14:44:00.005-04:00

Yesterday, while driving down South Blvd., I decided to stop in New York Bride and Groom and I was quite impressed with the customer service and the huge selection of fashionable bridesmaid dresses and bridal gowns. I've been meaning to check out the store, since they had their re-grand opening at the beginning of the year. It's so cute and I love the fitting room area! Each dressing room is named after a place or street in New York City, very charming.

If you are still searching for "the dress" they are currently having a great sample sale, with gowns priced at $299 and $399. They carry the designers:
Allure Bridal
Justin Alexander
D'Amore Lezu
BLUSH by JLM Couture
Maggie Sottero
Casablanca Couture
Monique Lhuillier BLISS
Da Vinci
Pixton Bridal
Enzoani
Private Label
Impression
Pronovias
Jim Hjelm
Sottero & Midgley

New York Bride and Groom
4618 South Boulevard
Charlotte, NC 28209
704-529-6400

Just the Way you Are!

2010-10-08T09:12:00.004-04:00

Okay, I had to blog about the new Bruno Mars song "Just the Way you Are". I absolutely LOVE this song! It's so sweet and makes me smile. I'm such a sap at times, as my husband and BFFs (Ashley, Allia and Leslie) can attest to. If either of them were at my desk right now, I would probably be singing this song to them. LOL!

Happy Friday!Hope this song brightens your day!

Taste at Founder's Hall

2010-10-06T14:47:00.007-04:00

Uptown has a new event space, Taste, it's located in Founder's Hall and has a great modern and sleek feel. The venue has a total of 3966 Sq Ft and can accommodate a total of 136 people for a seated reception (56 in the inside space and 80 on the patio). Catering is provided in-house by Compass Group.

Here are a few pictures of the space.

Charlotte event professionals please come out to the ISES Greater Charlotte Chapter October Speed Networking event at Taste, on Tuesday, October 12th, where you will get to check-out the new venue as well as connect with ISES members and other professionals in the hospitality industry. Please click here for the details and to register for the event. Hope to see you out!

Sneak Peak: Real Charlotte Wedding

2010-10-05T14:04:00.001-04:00

Here are a few behind the scene pictures taken from Jennifer and Daniel's wedding reception at the Peninsula Yacht Club. Stay tuned for the professional pictures from the talented Lucy Parker Photography.

Seating Chart

2010-09-28T17:02:00.005-04:00

Love this idea of a "Tie the Knot Wedding Genealogy Chart" by Melangerie for a seating chart. It's a great way to break the ice for your guests.